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Thursday, December 31, 2009

WOW!! Happy New Year!!





I can't believe it's already New Year's Eve. My husband made my day by saying, he'd rather spend New Year's Eve with his wife and kids than at some big party. I have to say I'd agree. This move has been a little tough, we're missing friends and smiling faces whereever we would go in Sheridan, but have grown, as a family, because of it. We've spent ALOT of family time the past 3.5 months and honestly love being with each other. I think it's been the perfect thing to mold our family into the family God wants us to be. Janika said the other day, "Mom, this move has really deepened my faith because I don't have all of the busy-ness of my life in Sheridan anymore. I have more time to really talk to God." WOW--

Speaking of Janika. She melted my heart yesterday. Most of you know that after I got back from Ethiopia, I was pretty sick all summer. We've finally nailed down the culprit and I can't eat anything with wheat in it or WHAMMO, sick again. Last night, my daughter wanted to make homemade pizza and then made me my own wheat free pizza!! I haven't had pizza since August and it tasted so great!! Thanks, Jani- you truly are a gift to me...

Elli's life also changed in Ethiopia. She KNOWS she is meant to work in an orphanage when she's older and thinks about orphans ALL OF THE TIME. She had a $30 gift card to Wal-mart (thank you EnerCrest) and has been saving it. The day after Christmas, we all went there and she got busy--not buying anything for herself, but enough to almost fill a rubbermaid tub with kids' clothes that were on clearance...Now I just need to find a family to take them to Ethiopia with them when they travel..any takers out there? Also, for Christmas, she didn't want anything for herself. She asked, and received (thanks Sauros) money for her mission fund. She's got 1/4 of a plane ticket saved already--Again WOW, this Mommy learns so much from her kids' example.

The past two days have been COLD- actually it's been cold for awhile and looks to be for sometime-- ND truly is an ICEBOX. Yesterday, Kael and Gavin bundled up and went outside for over an hour and had the time of their lives. Kael constantly thanks me for bringing home Gavin (thanks to God!!). Today, Gavin couldn't wait for a repeat performance..following Kael around WAITING on his big brother to play with him. Mike, in his wisdom, reminded Kael how neat it was that this little boy wants to be with him all the time.. ANOTHER WOW MOMENT..What a blessing both of my boys are, to each other and to all of us.

This past week, Gavin has been able to skype with three well loved friends from Benchi Maji. Their families feel like family to us..another WOW from God. What a gift..being united with families that we have never met, because we serve the same BIG GOD and have followed his mandate to care for orphans in their distress.

Finally, I have to say that I hear my kids (Elli, Janika, Kael and Layne)saying over and over "Mom, we have room for more." I know some naysayers about adoption say that it can detrimentally affect your biological kids. They are wrong! Adoption increases your children's ability to love others and see others as more important than themselves. I couldn't imagine my life without Layne and Gavin.. WOW, thanks, God for bringing these amazing kids into my life and definitely into my heart.

As I'm typing this, I can hear yells and laughs as the rest of my family plays Twister upstairs..what a wonderful sound..

We pray you all have a Happy New Year!!!

Saturday, December 26, 2009

Great Christmas!


We had a wonderful Christmas together as a family, very low key, focusing on Christ's birth and each other. Mike sang at church with Elli and Janika, which was a huge treat. It was the first time he's sung with them in public. It was really a blessing to hear them sing together.

Gavin and Layne have had multiple sleep-overs the past few nights. They LOVE it, but I have to remind them over and over to go to sleep. Gavin said last night, "Mommy, we are having BIG FUN!!" From the giggles I'm sure they were. Fortunately for Gavin, Layne has an incredible imagination and fortunately for her, he is game to go along with just about any pretend play. I honestly don't know how they sleep with 10 stuffed animals in their bed with them.

Kael has been busy, busy, building K'Nex inventions and the little ones love playing with whatever he's built. He and Mike are on day 2 of an Axis and Allies Europe Game. Cousins--he'll be ready for battle this summer!

We have been diligently praying for a sibling group of 4 to find a family by next Christmas. Would you join us in prayer for them? Mike met the oldest boy of the 4 back in June, when we were in Addis Ababa, picking up Gavin. The reality is, orphanages can only keep kids up to a certain age and he is almost to that age. Hopefully, we'll be able to tell you that he and his siblings have a family soon. Maybe, by posting this, someone will contact us about being their family. We would happily put you in contact with our agency, if you have room in your homes to love 4 beautiful kids.

Sunday, December 20, 2009

6 months home!!




It's been awhile since I've posted about Gavin. We met our new social worker this week for his 6 month post placement visit--still can't believe it's been 6 months already!! She was amazed at Gavin's language abilities and how easily he seems to have become a part of our family. He was very animated showing her around his house, his room, talking about all the things he and Layne do together. It was a good visit.

Mike and I keep pinching ourselves with regards to his transition. He delights us everyday with the new things he's learning and with his infectious laugh.

It is so fun to watch him get into the Christmas spirit around here. One of the pictures shows him with his own stocking- I think he thinks we're a little crazy hanging them on the mantle, but loves having his "own" anything. Tonight at dinner, he was able to tell his Daddy, that we give gifts at Christmas because God gave us HIS son for Christmas, the greatest gift of all!! In just 6 months, our son has come to a new land, integrated into a new family, learned a new language, eaten all new foods and discovered that he has a LOVING heavenly Father who gave us a wonderful gift many, many Christmases ago.

We are rejoicing in our family this week as our good friends, the Halls wait for their court date for their little girls, our friends, the Hutchesons wait for their court date next week, and 2 more children were removed from our agency's waiting child list this week--next Christmas all of these children will have a families!!

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

important links

I've been following two family's journeys back to Ethiopia, with Childrens' HopeChest. These families are helping to find sponsors for specific orphanages/carepoints in Ethiopia. The sponsorships are unique in that each sponsor helps to meet the needs of the individual child as well as the orphanage itself. If you want to take a trip to help meet the needs of your sponsored child, you are invited to!!

PLEASE take the time to read the following blogs:



http://familyfromafar.blogspot.com

http://afatherseyes.blogspot.com

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Calling Prayer Warriors for the Reed Family

Good morning everyone. As you know, I've asked you to pray for the Reed Family before. They received a referral for a little girl, earlier this year, passed court and two days later their precious daughter passed away in ET. They just got home from ET with their beautiful daughter,Maura, on Saturday. This morning, Maura is undergoing a cardiac cath. at Vanderbilt University. Please pray for this entire family, as they wait, for news that the procedure was a success and Maura's heart was healed.

You can go to reedadoption.blogspot.com to follow their journey and let them know that you're praying for them.

Thank you.

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

World AIDS Day

Today is World AIDS Day. Since beginning to adopt a child from Ethiopia, we've learned so much about AIDS. Gavin does not have HIV, but after reading information from many families whose children do have HIV, I wouldn't hesitate to adopt a child with HIV. Did you know?

With proper medication, the viral load in a child with HIV can become ZERO?

Children with HIV, who grow up on medication have a nearly normal life expectancy.

Medication for children with HIV can run as low as $60/month, that's as much as some people spend on a mocha every day.

There are no documented cases of children with HIV passing the virus on to their family members.

NOW, the harsh reality is:
If these children are left in their countries of origin without medicines, they will die and die early.

There are entire nations in Africa that are missing the "parent" generations, nations where one elderly lady might be trying to raise 25 orphaned toddlers.

Let God use you today, to make a difference in the life of a child affected by AIDS.

Check out amazing ministries, like Childrens Hopechest to see how you can make a difference. Consider being the answer for one of these children.

Monday, November 30, 2009

What a GREAT day!

We just got off the webcam with Kashiku!!! We've been praying this little boy home, since we met him in Addis Ababa in June. He is beautiful beyond words and so happy with his new Mommy and Daddy. We can't wait to see him in person in a few months (or sooner, if we can think of a reason to get to Kentucky).

Karen and JM, thank you for letting us be a part of your family!!

The internet has been a huge blessing in helping our children stay connected with others from their home. We are so looking forward to our trip in March, to reunite our children with their good friends.

Sunday, November 29, 2009

Shopping with a purpose this Christmas

I have to admit, I copied this idea from another family's blog, the Weimer Family. It is such a good idea, that I wanted to post it here too.

This Christmas, as you're buying gifts for people, pray about buying items from families who are in the process of or completing their adoptions. Adoption is, quite honestly, VERY expensive. Unfortunately, it is the expense of it, that keeps people from even considering bringing a child into their homes. As an adoptive parent, I want to see more kids placed in loving homes. What an incredible Christmas gift that would be- helping children find forever homes.

The following families and links are provided below. I'm sorry we're not computer savvy enough to take you right to the link--any help here is appreciated. So, just copy the web addresses into your brower and go. Read their blogs, see their hearts and help them bring their children home!!

http://johnmarkhutch.blogspot.com You can purchase GREAT fair trade coffee here to help with adoption related expenses.

http://mycrazyadoption.org You can purchase COOL t-shirts here to help this family on their second Ethiopian adoption

http://taylorfamilyadoption.wordpress.com The Taylor family is selling t-shirts and coffee to help finance their SECOND Ethiopian adoption (they brought home their first two children a year ago.


http://itspoppydipblog.blogspot.com I have a link on the right here, so you can go to this website for the cutest little girl dresses (Layne would love one, hint hint) All of the proceeds from Sallee's sales go to finance their THIRD Ethiopian adoption.

http://jennydixon.etsy.com This family is selling custom photo Christmas cards to finance their adoption.

Ethiopian coffee is incredible (Ethiopia is the birthplace of coffee). The following families are selling coffee to help fundraise their adoptions. This sure beats the big corporations getting the profits from a daily mocha!!

www.JustLoveCoffee.com/Winowiski
www.justlovecoffee.com/TheIrvins

This family is on their second adoption adn are selling fair trade Bolga Baskets from a co-op in Ghana. www.shoptadopt.blogspot.com

This family is selling $5 Christmas ornaments: http://5millionminus1.blogspot.com

This family is financing their second adoption with cool magnets: http://bringingezrahome.blogspot.com

If you're a fan of Pampered Chef, this family will benefit from you buying the products from them. Their is a link on their blog: www.familywovenbyfaith.blogspot.com

Another neat t-shirt option: www.embracingtheleastofthese.blogspot.com

As for us: We are saving for our re-adoption expenses right now. If you want to purchase any Shaklee products from our on-line store, this money will go towards those expenses and for the girls and I to go back to Ethiopia on mission trips: www.sweeneygreenclean.myshaklee.com

Finally, I put a link to Amazima Ministries to the right. PLEASE click on it, read what this ministry is doing and be a part of it--Truly Amazing, a 21-year-old, feeding several hundred children each weekend, in Uganda, doing what God has called her to do..

Monday, November 23, 2009

Our friends, the Egly Family

http://www.facebook.com/l.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Fis.gd%2F50uiS&h=1c0907b515ea0207e9e504e28d078e82
I hope it works for you all to see this family. We traveled with them to Ethiopia and got to experience meeting our children together. Jason and Shelley, thanks for letting us continue to share in this journey. We can't wait to see you someday soon!


God is Good! We have much to be thankful for!

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Layne and Zipper


It's been a tough few days around here for Layne (and for all of us). We discovered she had pneumonia yesterday, after listening to her cough worsen throughout Sunday afternoon. We caught it super early, so we're hoping it doesn't progress. She really hasn't been the same since she had Swine flu about a month ago.

Every night, Zipper jumps on Layne's bed, ready to sleep together. Every night, Layne tells us how much she loves having a snuggle dog.

Mike and I have been putting off putting Zipper down for just this reason. Our kids (okay, so include me in that too) love Zipper and our other dogs. So, today, when we had no choice but to visit the vet for that purpose, it was so tough...The big kids understand how badly he has been hurting- he had a bad disc, which caused his legs to go out from under him regularly, in this house of many stairs and chronic ear infections. To Layne and Gavin, it's very hard to understand...Layne took it HARD, which then caused her to cough all the more.

Hopefully, tomorrow will be brighter.

How to Give Your Children an Education Before They Go to School




How to Give Your Children an Education Before They Go to School

Many parents want their children to get a nous start on chronicle starting from an early age. So, ground don't you start before they even go to school? Before Preschool or Kindergarten, start teaching them from home. Start gift them basic lessons that module provide them an edge compared to all the other students as substantially as provide them a nous start for later. Here's a couple of tips that module help you.

1) One thing that you crapper do is to speech with your children constantly. The more you speech to them the more they module be able to understand the language faster and acquire a better vocabulary from an early age. This module be able to permit them advance to more complicated text and help them eventually in the future.

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3) Let them meet a aggregation of different children when they are young. This module help your children acquire bonds with other people and permit them acquire bonds later in chronicle easily too.

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Moms Benefit Children by Having a College Education - Take Advantage of Obama's Scholarship Program




Moms Benefit Children by Having a College Education - Take Advantage of Obama's Scholarship Program


As a female is ontogeny up, the first years of their lives a care (and father) are their primary role models so setting so good examples and values for the children are important. One continuance a care crapper instill is showing how acquisition is important. A care crapper prove this by having a college education.

By having a college activity you exhibit to children how essential it is to meliorate yourself. You also exhibit them that the sky is the limit. Many successful people hit been known to feature that as a female they were told that they could by anything they put their mind to. Well it just is not in the word but it is in the action of the care too. It is said that to hit an impact on a child's life, 7% of communication is through words and the rest is through actions. That quote, \"do as I say, not as I do,\" does not work. They are focusing at what you are doing. Therefore, care should seriously consider going to college to set a good example for their children, our country's future generation.

President Barrack Obama knows the importance of college education. He wants to break the cycle of women without a college education. This is why he has scholarship and grants of up to $10,000 to mothers who want to get a college activity to meliorate themselves and their family.

Not only does having a college activity increase the chance their children get on too but also ontogeny up, they will hit more opportunity with your new job that pays well due to your college degree. You hit more money acquirable that haw be used for some extracurricular activities. Sign them up for music lessons, karate, sports, you never know, you female haw come across a talent they never knew existed. Besides activities, you and your family will probably be talking vacations on a regular basis. These trips will expose them to the world, cultures, and traditions.
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Basic Benefits of Physical Education to Our Children




Basic Benefits of Physical Education to Our Children



Today more than ever we are all very busy with the day to day tasks of our lives. We have so some things to do with our jobs and our families it is a miracle that we don't all go crazy.

And today this type of lifestyle is starting to effect our children in negative ways. Today children are increasingly becoming more like adults. Most adults don't intend proper training or nutrition. Our children learn from us and out society. Today they spend some hours in edifice and in after edifice activities that take up a large majority of their time.

That is why it is so alive that kids intend physical state in public and private schools today. The physical state is a much needed change of pace. From sitting in the class room all day at some desk or going home after edifice and sitting in front of a machine screen state recording games.

Today more than any other time in history children in the United States are overweight. And some are earnestly overweight and considered obese. This crapper lead to all sorts of problems such as diabetes, hormone imbalances and other negative physical outcomes.

So this is why I believe that it is alive to have good physical state programs which require our kids to intend active. That way they crapper intend some training that is so vitally needed by them. Another reason too, is because not only are our children not getting enough training they are not getting proper nutrition. They are eating the wrong things that encourage weight gain and health problems.

So, make sure your child is enrolled in a good physical state class to ensure that he or she gets some much needed physical activity. The benefits crapper be monumental and your children may one day thank you for it.
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Special Needs Children's Education

Special Needs Children's Education

It's almost as though homeschooling was invented for a primary needs children's education. Kids afflicted with ADHD, autism, dyslexia or Asperger's among other learning difficulties crapper every goodness from being taught at home by their parents. Some open edifice systems crapper afford to hire trained therapists for these fields, but the extra attention and time afforded a enrollee at home by a loved digit crapper attain a big difference in a child's ability to learn. It's meet natural for a parent to be able to teach their own female more effectively. They've been doing it for the student's whole life and know how to best approach new things with them. They will probable be more patient than a open edifice teacher and offer the extra time it might take to learn. A classroom would probable not be as able to offer the one-on-one time it might take until a enrollee \"gets it\".

It's probable a parent would also know better than a open edifice instructor what manner of teaching would best suit their child. Some see better with visual aids, some by continuation and some by seeing it done for them and copying what they're taught. It's rattling probable a parent would already know this from their own experience. They'll also know what to look for when a primary needs female is getting frustrated and ready to act up or quit, thereby avoiding a bad learning undergo for the child.

If you're wondering what sort of curriculum would best suit your primary needs children's education, there are several avenues to get started.

We would first look on the Internet. Non-profit groups who support your child's disorder will probable hit a presence there and should hit good information about learning difficulties and how to overcome them. They will probable attain suggestions or direct you to other good sources. They may even list case studies of various methods of learning and their success rates.

We would also try to find support groups on the cyberspace for your particular disease. There will probable be several forums on the Web where you crapper feature others' posts and communicate questions directly. Parents on these websites are often rattling willing to share their experiences and will offer help when they can. Although your female is an individual, often there crapper be common practices that will help almost every children suffering from a common ailment.
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Education - Shape the Future of Children

Education - Shape the Future of Children

Education plays a major role in shaping up the future of children. Proper activity provided to children crapper not exclusive support them attain good career but also support in the transformation of society. It is the calibre activity which crapper turn an ordinary child into an extraordinary individual. Many children are deprived of activity which is a major set back to development of India.

Education must aim not exclusive to provide literacy but also in overall development of a child personality. Quality activity must aim on fulfilling the primary learning needs of children. Children need to be taught in a way they crapper enjoy learning different things, rather than study and write exams just to score good marks. Rather than just concentrating on academics, children must be encouraged to verify part in extra curricular activities, sports, debates, project works etc. The activity provided must boost a child ability to reason and analyze. This crapper bring about an innovation in education.

There are a number of schools and educational institutions which aim to provide calibre education. There are schools having CBSE, ICSE syllabus which educate the children in India at a national level. International schools provide activity matched the global standards. Convent schools also aim to provide calibre activity with moral values to children which support amend their personality. Residential schools in turn attain a child more disciplined, responsible and hard working.

It is the pedagogue who teaches the child in a number of structure to support understand the subject. A good pedagogue crapper attain a great impact on enrollee life by making learning an excitement. The transformation of children needs improvement in activity by calibre teaching institutions, which crapper be achieved by transformation of teachers. The increasing awareness of the importance of efficient teachers in calibre activity has led to the development of a number of teaching colleges which aim to produce superior teachers who crapper provide high calibre education. The teaching colleges provide courses like bachelor of education, masters of activity etc. Some teaching institutions also guarantee placements to the students.
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Special Education Task Setting For Classes With Autistic Children

Special Education Task Setting For Classes With Autistic Children

The Education of children with autistic perception is a primary education task regardless of the particular type of school attended.

An ongoing formal and informal evaluation of the learning achievement through pertinent methods and systematic observation are vital to ensuring an optimal adaption of the person matter.

The primary educational need for action arises from the altered utilization and living conditions of grouping with autism and becomes especially evident in the following areas:

- The learning of socially pertinent behavior and relationships.
- The utilization and differentiation of verbal and nonverbal forms of communication through utilization of the positive effects of facilitated communication.
- The support of curiosity-oriented behavior and utilization of pertinent forms of action toward the social environment.
- Deliberate action-planning,-management and -implementation.

So far, in attitude to practical doctrine work, no mend didactic-methodological approach is famous being considered to be effective for the whole spectrum of students with autism symptom disorders. Rather, the motorical skills, psycho-motorical capabilities, cognitive abilities, and socio-emotional utilization of apiece student with autism staleness be supported and encouraged with a high degree of individualization and person-oriented learning neutral differentiation.

Methodological-didactic openness, a continuous interdisciplinary diagnostic process as well as the consideration of the principles of capability, skill and knowledge orientation are key factors when it comes to the thinking and implementation of classes.

It is of great relevance not to adapt the students, who often learn with very individual techniques and modes of communication, to a teacher-directed, passive learning model, but to allow them to active participate, pertinent to their attained level of development, in the substantive, structural, and qualitative essay of the class.

Educational prerequisite for these didactic directives is an in-depth professional qualification of those educators who are involved in the long-term education, support and supervision of autistic children.

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Thursday, November 12, 2009

Basic Benefits of Physical Education to Our Children

Basic Benefits of Physical Education to Our Children

Today more than ever we are all very busy with the day to day tasks of our lives. We have so many things to do with our jobs and our families it is a miracle that we don't all go crazy.

And now this type of lifestyle is starting to effect our children in negative ways. Today children are increasingly becoming more like adults. Most adults don't get proper exercise or nutrition. Our children learn from us and out society. Today they spend many hours in school and in after school activities that take up a large majority of their time.

That is why it is so vital that kids get physical education in public and private schools today. The physical activity is a much needed change of pace. From sitting in the class room all day at some desk or going home after school and sitting in front of a computer screen playing video games.

Today more than any other time in history children in the United States are overweight. And some are seriously overweight and considered obese. This can lead to all sorts of problems such as diabetes, hormone imbalances and other negative physical outcomes.

So this is why I believe that it is vital to have good physical education programs which require our kids to get active. That way they can get some exercise that is so vitally needed by them. Another reason too, is because not only are our children not getting enough exercise they are not getting proper nutrition. They are eating the wrong things that promote weight gain and health problems.

Article Source

: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Greg_A_Brown

Monday, November 9, 2009

The unexpected

Before we went to Ethiopia, we expected trials: we expected language barriers, tough behaviors, sibling issues, food issues, difficulties with bonding, and grief on Gavin's part.

What I didn't expect was a HAPPY boy, who greets most things with a smile and a laugh.
I didn't expect him to LOVE us so very deeply and immediately.
I didn't expect he and Layne to be the best friends EVER.
I didn't expect him to crawl into my lap several times per day to wrap my arms around him.
I didn't expect Kael to enjoy him so much.
I didn't expect to hear him say, "I no laugh in Benchi. Here I laugh all the time."
I didn't expect him to learn to love our God so deeply so quickly.
I didn't expect him to run to help us anytime we need it.
I didn't expect his grief to be so short lived.
I didn't expect him to be SO athletic.
I didn't expect him to learn his letters and numbers so quickly.
I didn't expect the HUGE hugs he gives Mike every time he comes home or to me when I return from an errand.
I didn't expect him to share so well, when he's never had anything before.
I didn't expect to think he is SO cute!!

Thursday, November 5, 2009

Happenings

The last month has flown by with many, many new things to experience, here in North Dakota:

1. Gavin's first Halloween was met with "This is so, so cool, Mommy." This came as we were walking down the streets in downtown Williston, where merchants give the kids candy at every store. I can't even imagine how exciting it must have been for my son, who was always hungry a year ago to be handed candy of all things.

2. Gymnastics: Layne and Gavin have started in a gymnastics class and love it!!!

3. Basksetball: The girls are on a Rec team, with several practices under their belt. Kael joins them at an open gym, put on by the high school coaches a few nights per week. Through basketball, they have made two really good friends, who were so welcoming to them..much appreciated.

4. Homeschooling: Our schooling is going really well this year. We all love what we're learning and love the dynamic homeschool community here. As a family with 5 kids, we fit right in. We have a veteran homeschool family 4 houses away with neat kids who come over regularly. It's a real blessing to have such neat kids close.

5. Chocolate: Gavin just told me, "I like chocolate now, Mommy, yummy, yummy!!" SUCCESS-- it's only taken us 5 months, but he now appreciates our dessert of choice.

6. Adoptive community: We have been in contact with the AWAA families who also adopted children from Gavin's village. They are such an encouragement to us!! We are all planning to get the kids together in the spring so they can stay connected--what fun!! Watch out Indianapolis!

7. Church: I think we've found the church for our family to attend! We've visited there two Sundays now, and it is a really neat Body of Believers.

That about wraps it up. We are enjoying lots of Sunshine and being together as a family.

Monday, November 2, 2009

143,000,000 Orphans- Orphan Sunday this Sunday

YouTube - 143,000,000 Orphans


We copied this video after seeing it on Karen and John Mark's blog. Please watch it. Please pray how you can be involved.

Our t-shirts read: 143,000,000 orphans minus 1.

You really can make a difference in the life of an orphan. You too, can see he/she experience many new things, but most importantly, hear them say, "I love you Mommy and Daddy." You can help them feel safe, secure, well fed, and LOVED.

Thursday, October 29, 2009

What we're learning

My big kids are studying Ancient Civilizations, this year. It is great timing (God's timing) that we would be reading so many great books about Ancient Egypt and the other ancient civilizations. Why? Well, we're all learning that many of the Pharoahs were from the land of Nubia/Kush (Ethiopia and Sudan). It's fascinating, that this country, that we've come to love, once ruled the ancient world. We're currently reading, "The God King," about Taharka, a young Nubian Pharoah (who happens to also be mentioned in the Bible). Gavin gets so excited when we tell him that this King probably looked a lot like him. It's also fun for us then to look at movies, depicting Ancient Egypt and see that the actors are all white and their slaves were black-- WRONG PEOPLE!! Anyway, God has truly opened our eyes in so many ways this year, and is now using our Sonlight books to bring us closer to the country of our son's heritage.

If you've adopted from Ethiopia and want to encourage your children with this history, we are using Sonlight Core 6. You can leave a comment if you have some questions for us.

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

My passions- keeping my kids healthy and orphan care

As a Mom of several kids with allergies and asthma, I'm always looking for new prodcuts to help them improve their health. About one month ago, I was introduced to Shaklee products. (They're not new, Mike said his Mom has used the products since he was little). After a little more research and test-driving some of the cleaning products I became hooked. The products are completely safe, non-toxic, economical and work really well. The best part about them is: I don't have to worry about Elli having an asthma attack after I've CLEANED the house-- have you read the warnings on the back of some of your cleaning products? You're actually supposed to wear a mask when using them-- I know because when I didn't, I would cough...hmmmm

So, I KNOW you're wondering how this helps with orphan care. Let me fill you in.
As a distributor with Shaklee, I can help non-profit organizations set up their own website. It's free and the non-profit then makes the money off of all products sold from their website-- It's a win-win: people switch from using common cleaning products (or supplements- as Shaklee has amazing supplements), purchase their products from the non-profit and then the non-profit is able to fundraise without much work. I'm hoping that those of you who have non-profit orphan ministries will sign up to give your organization a much needed boost in this economy!!

Finally, the girls and I are planning to return to Africa within the next 1-2 years on the first of many orphan care missions trips. The money we raise personally, from being distributors for Shaklee will help defray the cost of these trips--BENEFITTING ORPHANS again.

Please visit: sweeneygreenclean.myshaklee.com If you have any questions please shoot them my way. If you're working with a non-profit to help fund your adoptions, I'd love to visit with you more.

Friday, October 23, 2009

He's coming home!!!

Thank you prayer warriors! Sweet Kasheku passed court and will be coming home soon!!! Praise the Lord!!!

Thursday, October 22, 2009

Tonight's the night!

If you've followed our blog for awhile, you'll remember us asking for prayers for a wonderful little boy K***, who was Gavin's best friend at the Transition Home. We met him while we were there and ached to bring him home with us. Tonight, while we sleep, his case will be before a judge in Ethiopia. PLEASE PLEASE pray that this little boy will pass court and be united with his forever family soon!!! Karen and John Mark, we are praying for you too!

Hope to be posting great news tomorrow--you may hear us scream all the way from North Dakota if he passes!!


The area that Gavin comes from is being hit by a SEVERE drought. This is reality and many, many families can't feed their children. His village is in SW Ethiopia, right by the Kenyan border. He has often told me, "Mommy, in Benchi, I so, so so hungry." Keep that in mind, when you read the following article and look at the map in the article:

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/33433935/ns/world_news-africa/

We, as a church, can be doing so much to bless these people!

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Sunday, October 18, 2009

Hot Sauce

We had a glorious first full weekend in Williston. We're in a great neighborhood, with lots of kids--most of whom ended up playing in our driveway yesterday. The big kids got to go to a Hay maze with a local youth group and then we tried out a new church this morning. People, overall, are VERY friendly and welcoming. We also love that we are 5 minutes from everything again.

Now to the hot sauce-- I had read on another adoptive Mom's blog that her daughter loved to pour hot sauce on everything. Ethiopian food is extremely spicey (Sweeney food is not). Gavin had eaten almost everything we put in front of him, but now that he has his own jar of hot sauce sitting next to his place-- He eats at least twice as much!!! He wasn't enjoying the tomato soup for lunch today--so, we had him pour some hot sauce in it and got the desired, "UM, Mommy this is yummy!" We've done hot sauce on potatoes, sandwiches, eggs, you name- it's been hot sauced!

For all you soon to be adoptive parents out there-- GET SOME HOT SAUCE!! It will make everything so much easier- now, if we could only get him to like chocolate!

Monday, October 12, 2009

We made it!!!

We made it to ND in really good shape..had lots of help from people at home and Mike's crew here. Layne got pretty sick Saturday, but is doing much better--Praise the Lord!!

Before we left, we had our first family photos taken by Alissa Ferullo. She did an incredible job, was so fun to work with and turned our session into great pictures. If you want to see them, check out her blog: alissaferullophotography.com. She just posted our pictures to her blog.

We get internet at home tomorrow!!!! Thanks for your prayers with regards to our move.

Thursday, August 20, 2009

Press Releases Stating How Missouri Schools Are Doing

Following article from 8/20/09 Parent Newsletter from Janice Phelan, LSR-7 Media Specialist:

R-7 STUDENTS SCORE ABOVE
STATE AVERAGE ON MISSOURI
ASSESSMENT PROGRAM
Continuing tradition of academic success

R-7 School District students scored above the state average in all grade levels in math, communication arts and science on the Missouri Assessment Program (MAP) tests this year. R-7 students take the math, communication arts and science MAP tests each spring, and the 2009 results were released by the state in early August.

The students' average scores are based on the percentage of students scoring in the top two achievement levels. The 2009 MAP test results continue a tradition of R-7 School District student success. The local district has won Missouri's Distinction in Performance Award, the state's highest recognition for academic achievement, for the past eight years. The R-7 School District is also among just a handful of districts in the state to earn a perfect score on criteria for this award each year for the last eight years.

Here are other publications on the same information:

http://education.missouri.edu/news/articles/2008/spring/pr_coe_2008_04_04_dese_banquet.php

School Districts Meet State-wide Standard for Excellence
by Megan Ryder
PRESS RELEASE
Contact: Jonathan Steffens
Phone: 573-882-7896
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31 School Districts Honored as Recipients of Missouri’s Department of Elementary and Secondary Education’s (DESE) “Distinction in Performance” Award
The University of Missouri’s College of Education and Heart of Missouri Regional Professional Development Center recognized 31 Missouri school districts at mid-Missouri’s annual DESE Awards Banquet in Columbia. Earning “Distinction in Performance” requires a school district to perform at a high level or make steady progress in all areas of academic achievement.

During the 2006-2007 academic year, 294 of 540 total Missouri school districts qualified for this prestigious recognition, which is sponsored by DESE. The “Distinction in Performance” award criterion is based on the 14 academic performance standards used in the accreditation of K-12 school districts. K-8 districts use a portion of these standards. These standards are measured by the Missouri Assessment Plan tests, graduation rate, attendance and ACT scores.

“I commend Missouri educators and students for their hard work and progress. By maintaining a strong focus on achievement and accountability in all schools, we can help all students have a brighter future,” Gov. Matt Blunt says.

“We are extraordinarily pleased to have this opportunity to recognize the outstanding academic performance and the progress made by 294 Missouri school districts — an increase of 59 from last year — who are being singled out tonight for excellence,” Brady Deaton, chancellor of the University of Missouri said. (This equals 54% of all schools.)

Chancellor Deaton continued with: “It is fitting that Missouri’s flagship university and our College of Education today join Governor Blunt and DESE officials in recognizing the high caliber of education in Missouri’s schools. Quality education systems are of paramount importance to all of us. Today, we recognize the superb efforts of many in attaining the high level of achievement required to earn this prestigious honor.”

To qualify for the award, K-8 districts must meet 6 of 7 performance standards, including all of those based on the results of MAP tests. K-12 districts must meet 13 out of 14 standards, including all of the MAP-based measures.

The following Missouri school districts were recognized for their “Distinction in Performance” at the University of Missouri:

• Blair Oaks R-II,
• Boncl R-X,
• Brunswick R-II,
• Camdenton R-III,
• Centralia R-VI,
• Cole Co. R-I,
• Cole Co. R-V,
• Columbia 93,
• Cooper Co. R-IV,
• Elsberry R-II,
• Fayette R-III,
• Fulton 58,
• Gasconade Co. R-I,
• High Point R-III,
• Holliday C-2,
• Jefferson City,
• Moberly,
• Moniteau Co. R-I,
• Montgomery Co. R-II,
• North Callaway Co. R-I,
• Osage Co. R-I,
• Osage Co. R-II,
• Otterville R-VI,
• Salisbury R-IV,
• School of the Osage R-II,
• South Callaway Co. R-II,
• Southern Boone Co. R-I,
• St. Elizabeth R-IV,
• Tipton R-VI,
• Wellsville Middletown R-I and
• Westran R-I.

“I commend all Missouri school districts for the work they do day in and day out. Ultimately, we hope each school district qualifies for this award, as educating the next generation is our most important task at hand,” says Carolyn Herrington, dean of MU’s College of Education. “I am proud of the College of Education’s association with DESE in presenting the Distinction in Performance Awards and want to congratulate each of you for your hard work and recognition.”

The “Distinction in Performance” award winners were officially announced by DESE in December 2007.


http://www.leesummit.k12.mo.us/news/news.htm#earns


Lee’s Summit R-7 School District earns state’s
Distinction in Performance Award for eighth year in a row
Local district has “perfect 100” score on award criteria

The Lee’s Summit R-7 School District was one of just 13 metropolitan-area school districts to earn Missouri’s coveted Distinction in Performance Award this year, according to a Dec. 12 announcement from state education officials. The award honors districts for academic achievement and progress during the 2007-08 school year.

This is the eighth year in a row that the R-7 School District has received the Distinction in Performance Award, which has been offered by the state for just eight years.

"This award is a reflection of the value our community places on its quality school system," said Dr. David McGehee, R-7 School District superintendent. "We are grateful to everyone who contributes to our schools' and our students' success, including our outstanding staff, involved families and supportive community."

The Lee's Summit R-7 School District is one of just a handful of Missouri public school districts to have earned the Distinction in Performance Award with a perfect score for all eight years.

The award comes on the heels of several other noteworthy honors for the school district and community. Last summer, Money magazine named Lee's Summit R-7 schools as seventh best in the nation in its annual "Best Places to Live" issue focusing on the nation's top 100 small cities. Lee's Summit was featured during November in BusinessWeek magazine as Missouri's "best affordable town for raising children." Most important factors in this analysis were school performance, affordability and safety.

A total of 330 Missouri districts will receive the Distinction in Performance award, based on criteria set by the State Board of Education. The annual recognition is based on school districts’ performance on Missouri Assessment Program (MAP) test scores, ACT college-entrance test scores, attendance and dropout rates and other measures of academic performance during the 2007-08 school year. (This equals to 61% of all schools.)

To qualify for the recognition this year, K-12 districts had to meet 13 of 14 standards, including all of the standards that are based on Missouri Assessment Program test scores. The Lee’s Summit R-7 School District met and exceeded this goal, meeting 14 of the 14 standards and scoring a perfect 100 points for the eighth consecutive year.

Under the state’s accreditation process, school districts are formally evaluated once every five years, according to State Board of Education standards. The Distinction in Performance award is based on the same performance criteria that are included in the accreditation review process, but the award provides an annual confirmation and recognition of a district's consistent performance.

The Distinction in Performance Award is intended to provide an incentive for districts to focus on continuously improving academic achievement in all of the areas covered by the accreditation standards.

State education officials will formally recognize each of the award-winning school districts later this school year.

(Posted-December 12, 2008)

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Fewer Missouri Schools Meet AYP

State Officials Pleased with Steady Gains on MAP Tests

End-of-course Tests Debut; Fewer Schools Meet AYP Targets.

State education officials say they are pleased with new “end-of-course tests” in English, biology and algebra that will be used to measure the academic progress of Missouri high school students.

Results from the new end-of-course (EOC) exams were released today by the Department of Elementary and Secondary Education along with its annual report of Missouri Assessment Program (MAP) test results for all public schools in Missouri.

In grades 3-8, students posted small to moderate gains in math and English at every level except one (grade 6 math), continuing the trend of slow but steady improvement in the academic performance of elementary-grade students.

That growth, however, is not sufficient to help schools meet the rising standards of “adequate yearly progress” (AYP) as required by federal law. As a result, the number of schools in the state that did not meet AYP targets this year increased again. (See chart.)

Commissioner of Education Chris L. Nicastro said that she favored the transition to end-of-course tests and believes the new exams will be beneficial to students and schools.

“The first year of testing with the EOC program went smoothly. These tests will provide increased accountability for students and valuable information for schools to support instructional improvement,” Dr. Nicastro said.

About 63,000 students took each of the new EOC exams during 2008-09. The statewide results are:

• English II – 72.6% of student scored proficient or advanced
• Algebra I – 52.7% of students scored proficient or advanced
• Biology – 55.1% of students scored proficient or advanced

With EOC exams, students take the test over the specific course content at the end of the class. In the past, all students took a math test in tenth grade and a communication arts test in eleventh grade.

The EOC exams also are intended to increase students’ motivation to perform well on the tests. A portion of each student’s final course grade is now based on the results of the EOC exam. In the past, there were no consequences for students if they scored poorly on a MAP test.

Adequate Yearly Progress

About two-thirds of all school buildings in Missouri did not meet federal AYP targets this year, compared to about 58% in 2008.

“Adequate Yearly Progress is just one piece of a much-larger picture that displays how well our students are doing,” Nicastro said. “We have seen gains in our state test scores and progress in closing achievement gaps between groups of students. Factors such as formative assessments, student and parent engagement, attendance rates, and graduation rates are all part of the picture when looking at student achievement,” she said.

Here is a breakdown of districts and schools meeting AYP in 2009:

Title I Schools in “School Improvement”
Total Number of Public Schools 2,210
Total Number of Title I Schools 1,165
Title I Schools in School Improvement: 350
School Improvement Level 1 198
School Improvement Level 1, Delayed 39
School Improvement Level 2 100
School Improvement Level 2, Delayed 13
Title I Schools in Corrective Action: 70
School Improvement Level 3, Corrective Action Year 1 69
School Improvement Level 3, Corrective Action, Delayed 1
Title I Schools in Restructuring: 75
School Improvement Level 4, Restructuring, Planning 19
School Improvement Level 5, Restructuring, Implementation 42
School Improvement Level 5, Restructuring, Continuing 14
Title I Schools Receiving Sanctions: 495

State Summary of MAP Results
District by District Results
Preliminary List of Title I Schools Receiving Sanctions

Tuesday, August 4, 2009

Jeff Grisamore States District Will Only Work With Autism Group If They Go Through Him

As for a committee on autism and special needs in R-7, I have spoken to the Superintendent and Board, which relates to why he spoke to you. If that committee is formed, you will have one voice, although I would like to see D on it too, along with others, such as J. That will be up to R-7. Given your antagonism toward me and them, you are most fortunate you are being considered to be on such a committee. I would encourage you to consider changing your approach for the sake of LSASG's credibility and influence with R-7 and beyond. Your current approach is only isolating and alienating yourself from me and others who are doing much to help children with autism and their families.

This is in response to my email where I asked the Superintendent if Jeff Grisamore was setting up these meetings and if the district will only work through him.


"Rep grisamore is getting ahead of himself. There have been no follow up discussions about any ideas that may have been mentioned in some setting. Honestly, I do not recall discussing this committee but I may have forgotten. It happens. My invitation to discuss the issues is for you only at this time. You and I can discuss together where all of this goes from there. I hope this clarifies my intention. I do not go into this knowing where we will end up but do feel our dialogue has the potential to make us a better district and help you better understand our challenges. I am really looking forward to our meetings."

Monday, August 3, 2009

Missouri Decides To Lower Standards So That All Districts Meet State Requirements

Stimulus Brings Spec. Ed. Funding Challenge
By Christina A. Samuels


The increase in special education funding driven by the economic stimulus is bringing new attention to a unique provision in federal special education law: Districts that get more special education funds from the federal government are allowed to cut back on the local funds that they use to pay for special education programs.

The intent of the provision in the Individuals With Disabilities Education Act was to allow districts to gradually scale back their own spending while using federal money to fill the gap. But the law did not anticipate a near-doubling of special education funding from the federal government in a short amount of time. States are receiving $12.2 billion from the American Recovery and Reinvestment Act to spend on special education over two years, so most districts are likely to see dramatic increases in federal funds.

The prospect of being able to shift some local money from special education programs to other education needs at a time of severe budget pressure has also prompted at least two states¬—Illinois and Missouri—to change the way they assess their districts’ performance with special education students. Under stimulus-funding rules, districts that are meeting requirements under each state’s federally-mandated “state performance plan” get the spending flexibility, while districts that need more help do not.

That’s an incentive to move more districts into the “meets requirement” category, and Missouri plans to do that for one year, said Heidi Atkins Lieberman, the assistant commissioner for special education for the state.

“When we developed the criteria [for evaluating districts], we didn’t realize there would be a fiscal impact,” Ms. Lieberman said.

Shifting Criteria

Missouri evaluates districts on certain compliance issues, such as the percentage of children who receive special education evaluations in 60 days, as the federal government requires. But the state also added additional criteria for districts to meet, including specific graduation rates and dropout rates for students with disabilities. The federal government does not require that states use those measures to make final determinations for their districts.

Criteria like graduation and dropout rates, which are called “performance” indicators, are the ones that Missouri is suspending or a year. The change will allow every district in Missouri to meet state requirements, and thus allow those districts to shift a percentage of the local money that they spend for special education to other education programs. Without the change, nine districts would have had lower ratings.

The local money that would have been spent on special education can be used to avoid cuts to other programs, pay for teachers, and fund systemic changes to can improve schools for all students, Ms Lieberman said.

However, Ms. Lieberman said she had mixed feelings about the one-year change. “I am worried that people will get the wrong message. We have shifted from a compliance-oriented focus to a performance one, so it’s sort of going backwards.” But the state could not pass up the prospect of increased spending flexibility, she said.

‘A Feeding Frenzy’

Illinois is another state that is using different calculations to bring more districts up to standards. Under a new state formula for calculating compliance, the number of districts that need assistance has dropped from 321 to 159, according to a weekly message distributed to districts in June by Superintendent Christopher A. Koch.

The blog IDEA Money Watch, a project of The Advocacy Institute, a nonprofit organization in Marshall, Va., has been tracking special education spending, including gathering the documents on the changes to the policies in Missouri and Illinois.

The spending flexibility is a concern to some special education directors, who don’t want to see local special education funding diverted to other uses as new federal money flows to districts.
Mary Watson, the president of the National Association of State Directors of Education, said state education directors in a tough position. They recognize the financial bind many districts are in, but the officials also feel pressure to show that stimulus funding can help provide a better education for children with disabilities, as was intended.

“It’s been such a feeding frenzy,” said Ms. Watson, the director of the exceptional children division of the North Carolina Department of Public Instruction. The message that districts are getting is that “we’re doing well now, so our system can now take money away. It’s been really hard,” she said.

In North Carolina, 53 out of 115 districts now can reduce the amount of local money that they spend on special education programs, Ms. Watson said.

It’s unclear if all of those districts will choose to do that. The state has several successful initiatives under way, including programs to improve literacy and “tiered intervention” programs for academics and behavior at school. Those are all problems that could be continued, or expanded, using stimulus dollars.

But Ms. Watson is primarily getting questions from districts on how to retain teachers. “That leads me to believe that’s going to be the priority,” she said.

Local Funds Cut

The spending flexibility provision is part of the 2004 reauthorization of the IDEA. The law states that if districts receive an increase in federal funds for special education, they can reduce the amount they contribute to special education by 50 percent of that increase. So, if federal money to a district increases by $1 million over the previous year, that district can reduce its local contribution to special education programs by $500,000.

There’s a second condition on the money that is linked to evaluations that states must make of each district on a yearly basis, under the IDEA. Districts are evaluated on various indicators, and their performance determines whether they “meet requirements” or receive one of three lower ranks: “needs assistance,” “needs intervention,” or “needs substantial intervention.”

If a district receives one of those three lower ranks, it has to maintain its current level of local funding and loses the flexibility to shift local dollars to other education needs.

Mabrey Whetstone, the director of special education services for the Alabama department of education, said the stimulus has heightened the importance of those evaluations for state and local education officials.

In Alabama, 76 districts are allowed to reduce their local funding for special education because of the stimulus, though budgets are not final and so it is not clear how many will do so. Fifty-six districts do not have the flexibility, including the state’s largest school systems, Mr. Whetstone said.

The leaders in those districts have visited his offices to find out if they can get their determinations changed. Mr. Whetstone said he has carefully explained to them why it is necessary to hold the line.

“We’re being very clear: There were reasons the stimulus money was given to us,” he said. “This is an opportunity to improve the programming that is provided to students with disabilities.”

Vol. 28, Issue 37

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Letter From My Special Education Director to Missouri Commissioner of Special Education Regarding Concerns Expressed By OSEP

Reorganized School District No.7

301 NE Tudor Road
Lee's Summit, Missouri 64086-5702
Phone: (816) 986-1024 Fax: (816) 986-1160


Jerry L. Keimig
Executive Director of Special Services
December 22, 2008

Ms. Heidi Atkins Lieberman
Assistant Commissioner
Division of Special Education
Missouri Dept. of Elementary and Secondary Education
PO Box 480
Jefferson City, Missouri 65102-0480
Dear Ms. Lieberman:

This letter is in response to concerns expressed by OSEP regarding Ms. Tucker. Ms. Tucker has responded to staff in our District with a continual barrage of emails and web postings on a variety of topics expressing concerns, sending general information regarding special education issues, and conducting personal attacks on staff.

Ms. Tucker continually voices her concerns regarding educational programming for her son. We would agree that he has specific areas that need to be addressed, but despite multiple District attempts to provide direct interventions for her son, she has refused many of these services. We have even developed additional course offerings in response to her concerns, but once in place, she has refused to allow her son to access programming. It appears that Ms. Tucker is more
interested in a personal attack on the individuals responsible for providing educational services rather than accessing existing services designed to provide educational benefit for her child.

It is the Lee's Summit R-7's School District stance that we have been extremely responsive to the concerns of Ms. Tucker having devoted hundreds of hours to discussion of said concerns and viable solutions. We would welcome an opportunity to present the district view to an independent panel either through a DESE child complaint or a due process hearing.

Sincerely,

Jerry L. Keimig
C: Dr. David McGehee

Dr. McGehee and Mr. Keimig,

I requested and, just received, copies of all of the documents provided to DESE, related to my child complaints, that were provided by the school district. I also requested DESE's investigator notes/data as well. The following letter was in the information that I received.

My continual barrage of emails about general information regarding special education issues were meant to inform the staff of the issues that Jake faces and what experts agree would be the appropriate way to handle them. They were sent because the existing services that were offered to my son have been proven to be inappropriate and in some cases cause regression. It was my intent that educating those that work with my son might help them to understand his needs and allow them to offer an appropriate placement and services.

I continually voice my concerns regarding my son's educational programming because they are not being listened to and my son is losing his future potential. The only course offerings that you have developed for my son would include learning social skills by working with mentally handicapped children in a classroom with a teacher that I had already requested he be removed from. Those courses were already in place according to your staff.

I am not more interested in a personal attack on the individuals responsible for providing educational services rather than accessing existing services designed to provide educational benefit for my son. I am attacking the inappropriate services that are being offered and the fact that his progress is measured by observation. Observation is an opinion and not a fact. It can not be measured.

While the district states that they have devoted hours to discussion of said concerns and viable services, they have in no way spent the amount of time that I have spent on it. I have been forced to study special education law, IDEA, NCLB, autism, and Missouri laws. That is not what I would choose to do in my spare time. I have been forced to do it. If the district spent some of those hundreds of hours actually working with my son, we would all benefit.

I would like to know what direct interventions the district has proposed for my son and if they are research driven. I would like to know which of the following teachers have attended the school district's autism workshop and when. I would like to know why the district won't allow parents notes to be included in the meeting notes. That would clear up a lot of this confusion because you could then see that parents are not listened to and their input is ignored. If meetings were tape recorded it would benefit both sides.

I am not the only parent, in this district, that is having issues. There are many. One parent would get phone calls from the district telling her that they were having an IEP meeting and that they would be by to pick her up. One parent was told that PBM isn't accredited and that her child was being sent to Gillis. The process coordinator then wanted to meet her at a gas station to sign the 10 day waiver. One parent was turned into DCFS for educational neglect because she didn't want to receive homebound services at the teacher's child's baseball game. One parent had to put her child into private school because her son was going to be put into a life skills class because he was bringing down their MAP scores. One child, that is bipolar, has no BIP even though he has threatened a teacher with scissors. One parent had two school district personnel come to her home, unannounced, and tried to bully her into making an educational decision about her child. Three children were bullied and harassed by Todd Wilson the same year and nothing was done about it. Two of those children had to be removed from his class with a note from a physician stating that it was causing them emotional harm being in his class. My child has the same goals that he had 10 years ago. I didn't educate myself on special education and I believed the experts. They deleted goals that he never met and they stated he met goals that he never did. I TRUSTED them and look where we are today.

So, you may state that I am not interested in my son and that I just want to fight, but we both know that isn't true. We both know that this district has a history of denying services and misinforming the public. I have made it my mission to get the truth out. If you want to call that personal attacks. So be it. But, do NOT state that my child is NOT the reason that I am doing this. I am doing this for ALL of the children that are being left behind.

Monday, March 30, 2009

Is This Really The Best That We Can Do?

As a citizen of Lee's Summit I believe the time has come for change. Wouldn’t you agree that it is time for the Lee's Summit R7 School District to get back to the business of education and out of the construction business? Do we really need a $12 million pool, $100,000 band uniforms, a $15 million elementary school that is going to have empty classrooms?

Mr. McGehee’s articles seem to appear everywhere boasting the district’s performance awards from the state of Missouri, Money Magazine, etc. Sounds great until you research the real facts! School Board Candidate, Sherri Tucker did just that to discover the United States Department of Education ranked Missouri as 45th in the country with a grade of “C-” and a “D” for K-12 Achievement. Missouri received a status of “F” for spending, a “D-” in accountability and an “F” in college readiness. The Lee’s Summit R7 District is ranked 27th in the State of Missouri. Lee’s Summit High School is ranked 12th in the State, Lee’s Summit North 24th and Lee’s Summit West 57th.

Out of 523 districts this year, the state’s education department handed out Distinction in Performance awards to 330 districts, one of which was Lee’s Summit. Ironically, Lee’s Summit is also one of the districts that received federal sanctions this year for not making enough progress, yet they received a state award for distinction in performance? So some districts that received criticism when Missouri Assessment Program (MAP) results were released in August are now celebrating their state distinction? While students on average met the standards qualifying the district for the state award, subgroups of students (special education, black or those receiving free or reduced-price lunch which comprise 25% of our student population) did not. Is that acceptable? Sherri Tucker does not think so and neither do many other Lee’s Summit residents, myself included.

In addition, our tax levy is the second highest in Jackson County. According to the Lee's Summit District Newsletter, we spend the least amount on our students. We are 4th out of 6 school districts for teacher's salaries and we are 3rd out of 6 school districts for administrator's salaries. Where is all of that money going? Could it be continued construction of new and expensive facilities that we don’t really need?

Lately it seems the current board feels that we need to make Jackson County raise the assessments on our houses. I agree with Sherri Tucker’s viewpoint of cutting back on unnecessary expenses and put the focus back on the business of education. These cuts need to affect all departments including administration. We need to educate all of our children and not just the ones that make us look good. It is not just important to have a good reputation, but to live up to it as well.

I would ask the people of Lee's Summit to do their homework. Get the real facts and then vote for Sherri Tucker. No matter what you may read, Ms. Tucker is not a single-issue candidate. Sherri knows her facts as well, if not better than the other candidates or those currently seated on the board. We desperately need Sherri Tucker representing all of our children. We cannot continue in the direction that we are currently headed. Our children’s’ lives depend on decisions that our board makes. Right now they are not making decisions in the best interest of all of our children

How Missouri Handles Child Complaints

Missouri Department of Elementary and Secondary Education

- Making a positive difference through education and service -

March 23,2009

Dr. David McGehee

Superintendent

Lee's Summit R-VII School District

301 N.E. Tudor Road

Lee's Summit, MO 64086-5702



Curtis and Sherri Tucker

1200 SE London Way

Lee's Summit, MO 64081



Re: Jacob Tucker



Dear Dr. McGehee and Mr. and Ms. Tucker:



The Department of Elementary and Secondary Education has completed its investigation of the child complaint filed against the Lee's Summit R-VII School District by Curtis and Sherri Tucker on behalf of Jacob Tucker. The complaint was received on January 22,2009.



The attached decision, containing findings and conclusions, shall constitute the final decision of the Department of Elementary and Secondary Education.



Bert Schulte

Interim Commissioner of Education



c: Mr. Jerry Keimig, Special Education Contact,

Lee's Summit R-VII School District

Ms. Janet Hoskins, Assistant Director, Special Education Compliance

Ms. Julie Bower, Supervisor, Special Education Compliance

Ms. Jackie Bruner, Director, Special Education Compliance

Ms. Pamela A. Williams, Coordinator, Special Education Services

Ms. Cynthia Quetsch, Legal Counsel, Division of Special Education

Ms. Heidi Atkins Lieberman, Assistant Commissioner, Division of Special Education



Child Complaint Decision

Re: Jacob Tucker



Findings and Conclusions



1. Allegation: March 23, 2009



The Lee's Summit R-VII School District, in violation of state and federal regulations implementing the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA), failed to develop an Individualized Education Program (IEP) with appropriate goals to address Jacob Tucker's needs.



Findings:



Curtis and Sherri Tucker, parents of Jacob Tucker, allege the Individualized Education Program (IEP) team did not develop appropriate IEP goals that address Jacob's needs. Ms. Tucker opines that Jacob's goals do not state how Jacob will achieve the goals, what the method of therapy or services will be used to help him achieve the goals, who will perform those services, how often those services will be provided, and what the services are. In addition, she opines that the goals

developed for Jacob are not appropriate or achievable given his disability.



Jerry Keimig, director of special education, indicated the IEP team met on December 15, 2008, and developed IEP goals based upon Jacob's evaluation data and current educational performance. (Jerry Keimig was not a part of the IEP team) Conference notes reflect a discussion among IEP team members regarding the appropriateness of Jacob's goals.



The present level of academic and functional performance (PLAAFP) of Jacob's IEP dated December 15,2008, states that Jacob's disability affects his functional and academic involvement and progress in regular education curriculum in the following manner: class participation, staying on task, understanding and following directions, completing and turning in work on time, organization, self advocating for make-up work, taking notes, expressing himself through lengthy forms of written expression, test taking skills, understanding emotions of peers and teachers, and general social skills. In addition, the PLAAFP indicates that Jacob continues

to need improvement with the following skills: following written directions, self advocacy, organization, study skills, pragmatic language, coping skills, and social skills. Jacob's IEP has five (5) goals which address increasing self advocacy, organization and study skills, pragmatic social skills for maintaining conversations, identifying the impression he makes, and inferring meaning from different social scenarios. The goals are measurable as they include specific numbers to record level of attainment. (These goals are not measurable and they are not appropriate)



Decision:



State and federal regulations implementing the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA) require Individualized Education Program (IEP) teams to develop measurable annual goals (including academic and functional goals) to meet the child's needs resulting from the child's disability, enable the child to be involved in and make progress in the general education curriculum, and meet each of the child's other educational needs that result from the child's disability. Jacob's IEP dated December 15,2008, includes IEP goals that are related to the areas identified as skill deficits in the present level of academic achievement and functional

performance (PLAAFP) and the areas in which Jacob's disability affects his functional and academic involvement and his progress in the general education curriculum. (His goals will not meet his needs, enable him to be involved in and make progress in the general education curriculu, or meet other educational needs that result from his disability.)



Goal #1 Increase self-advocacy by asking for help at least 2 times in each class per semester



Goal #2 Increase organization/study skills by independently following written directions and completing task 2 times in each class per semester



Goal #3 Jacob will increase pragmatic/social language skills by maintaining a conversation using concise and relevant information with peers/adults with no more than one prompt on 3 consecutive days.



Goal #4 Jacob will improve pragmatic skills by identifying the impression he feels he is making in an interaction with peers/adults and adjusting his behavior appropriately in a structured small-group setting in 4/5 opportunities on 3 consecutive data days.



Goal #5 Jacob will improve pragmatic skills by inferring meaning from different social scenarios and identifying appropriate responses to the emotions of others in these situations with 80% accuracy on 3 consecutive data days. The state and federal regulations do not require that goals state how a student will achieve the goal, the method of therapy or services, and who will provide the services. The services summary of the IEP must include how often the services are provided and what the services are but that information is not required to be written in the IEP goals. The service summary of Jacob's IEP includes that information.



It is an IEP team's responsibility to develop appropriate goals on an individual basis based on the academic and functional needs of the child. In this case, the IEP team met and developed goals based upon Jacob's evaluation data and current academic achievement and functional performance. Goals must be measurable. Jacob's goals were measurable. Based on the foregoing, the Lee's Summit R-VII School District is found not out of compliance.



2. Allegation:



The Lee's Summit R-VII School District, in violation of state and federal regulations implementing the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA), failed to include areas of weakness and current evaluation results in Jacob Tucker's Individualized Education Program (IEP).



Findings:



Curtis and Sherri Tucker, parents of Jacob Tucker, allege the Individualized Education Program (IEP) team failed to address any of Jacob's areas of weakness and refused to put his current evaluation scores in the present level of academic achievement.and functional performance section of the IEP, therefore, resulting in Jacob's IEP not addressing his real needs.



Jacob's IEP dated December 15,2008, states that Jacob's disability affects his functional and academic involvement and progress in the general education curriculum in the following manner: class participation, staying on task, understanding and following instructions, completing and turning in work on time, organization, self-advocacy for make-up work, taking notes, expressing himself through lengthy forms of written expression, testing-taking skills, understanding the

emotions of peers and teachers, and general social skills. Jacob's IEP also states that Jacob continues to need improvement with the following skills: following written directions, selfadvocacy, organization, study skills, pragmatic language, coping skills, and social skills. Jacob's IEP dated December 15, 2008, states that the Wechsler Intelligence Scale for Children - 4th Edition (WISC-IV) indicated that Jacob's abilities to sustain attention, concentration, and exert mental control are a weakness relative to his nonverbal reasoning skills. Jacob's ability to process visual material quickly is also a weakness relative to his nonverbal reasoning skills.

Jacob's reevaluation dated December 2,2008, which is included in the December 15, 2008, IEP, states that his overall cognitive ability is within the average range as tested by the WISC-IV. The Wechsler Non-Verbal Scale of Ability (WNV) indicated that Jacob's cognitive ability was at the superior range. The Wechsler Individual Achievement Test - 2nd Edition (WIA T-II) indicated that Jacob's reading and written language skills are in the high average range, while math appears to be within the average range. The Vineland Adaptive Behavior Scales - 2nd Edition, indicates moderately low to adequate adaptive skills observed at school.



Decision:



State and federal regulations implementing the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA) require Individualized Education Program (IEP) teams to consider the strengths of the child and the results of initial or most recent reevaluation results. In this case, the IEP team considered Jacob's strengths, weaknesses, and test scores; and the IEP includes strengths, weaknesses, and the most recent reevaluation results. Therefore, the Lee's Summit R-VII School District is found not out of compliance.



3. Allegation:



The Lee's Summit R-VII School District, in violation of state and federal regulations implementing the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA), failed to allow Jacob Tucker's parents to be an equal participant in the Individualized Education Program (IEP) team process.



Findings:



Curtis and Sherri Tucker, parents of Jacob Tucker, allege the Individualized Education Program (IEP) team failed to make Ms. Tucker an equal partner on the IEP team. Ms. Tucker reports that she was told by the school district that she is the expert at horne and the district is the expert on Jacob at school. Ms. Tucker contends that the Lee's Summit R-VII School District's failure to allow her to tape record meetings and include her conference notes with the district's conference notes, indicates that she was not a full participant on her son's IEP team.



Documentation indicates that Mr. and Ms. Tucker were invited to and attended the IEP meetings on May 5, 2008, and December 15, 2008.



Jacob's IEP was amended on August 27,2008, and February 2,2009. The August 27,2008, IEP amendment indicates that Ms. Tucker was present and agreed to the changes made to Jacob's IEP. The February 2,2009, IEP amendment indicates that Ms. Tucker agreed to the IEP amendment via email. (This is a complete lie)



From: Sherri Tucker [mailto:autism@kc.rr.com] Sent: Sunday, February 08, 2009 11:21 AMTo: Jerry Keimig; David McGehee; Bower, Julie; Hoskins, JanetSubject: Letter About IEP



Below please find the letter that I received from the district and the changes that have been made to Jake's IEP.



It also included a Notice of Action and a note to sign and return the consent form. I don't believe that any of this was discussed or that I was included in these decisions. It states that these changes represent our views of Jacob's academic and functional performance and they modified the PLAAFP to accommodate some of my suggestions. How did we complete the IEP on 12-15-08 when I didn't agree to it?



Many of the items state that parents report. The district has a copy of the report from Jake's psychologist. He is on the district's list of approved independent evaluators. It was he that reported that Jake has an issue with visual-motor integration. His report is available in Jake's file.



February 2, 2009



Dear Sherri,

As you requested, please find attached Amendment of the IEP that we completed 12-15-08. We have reviewed your suggestions and modified the PLAAFP to accommodate some of your suggestions. These changes represent our view of Jacob's academic and functional performance. Please also find attached Notice of Action for these changes.

Respectfully yours,



Joy Rose

SPED Process Coordinator



Here are the changes in the schools part of the PLAAFP:



WISC-IV scores indicate that Jacob's abilities to sustain attention, concentrate, and exert mental control are a weakness relative to his nonverbal reasoning abilities. Jacob's ability to process visual material quickly is also a weakness relative to his nonverbal reasoning ability.



Here are the changes in the parent's concerns:



Parents note that while Jacob has shown improvement in writing grammatically correct sentences, paragraph construction, and written expression, he still has deficits in these areas. Parents report that they and psychiatrist do not see improvement in initiating, maintain, and ending conversations appropriately, nor identifying the emotions of others. They feel this is a major area of weakness for Jacob. Parents state that they feel that Jacob continues to need improvement in math reasoning. Parents also show a diagnosis of Early Infantile Autism with Kanner's Syndrome. Mr./Mrs. Tucker report that Jacob's skin picking is due to the anxiety that he experiences because of school and he can no longer take medication for it. They report that he was taking medication for it, but it damaged his liver. He is currently seeing a psychiatrist and he believes this to be the case. Parents also note concerns for visual-motor integration being lower than cognitive and academic functioning, citing slowness in dominant and non-dominant hands. Parents want the PLAAFP to include all of the diagnostic data. The district will not repeat all of the voluminous data here, because the information is available in Jacob's school file and is incorporated by this reference.



Parent concerns are set forth in Jacob's IEP. In addition, Joy Rose, special education process coordinator, informed Ms. Tucker on October 13, 2008, that all of Ms. Tucker's communications, including parent conference notes from IEP meetings, are placed in Jacob's special education file.

Documentation indicates there are multiple emails and correspondence dated January 23,2008, to January 27,2009, between Ms. Tucker and various district personnel. There were numerous communications about Jacob's progress, goals, and implementation of the IEP. Some of the parent's requests for evaluation were granted and some refused. Ms. Tucker was provided with draft IEPs prior to each IEP meeting. Ms. Tucker submitted a classroom observation report to

the IEP team with suggestions prior to the December 15, 2008, IEP meeting. The district responded to numerous issues raised by Ms. Tucker, but did not always provide the relief Ms. Tucker requested. The district offered to meet with her to discuss her concerns.



The Lee's Summit Board of Education policy states that the use of audio, video, or other recording devices at IEP meetings or Section 504 meetings is strictly prohibited in accordance with the Rehabilitation Act of 1973. The policy also states that exceptions to this policy will only be made when such recordings are necessary to ensure parental rights that are guaranteed under Part B of the_IDEA. These requests must be made within a-reasonable-period oftime prior to the scheduled meetings.



Decision:



State and federal regulations implementing the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA) require that input be considered from all IEP team members when developing a student's Individualized Education Program (IEP) and that the district take steps to ensure that parents are present and given an opportunity to participate. There is no requirement that parents be an "equal" decision-maker nor is there any standard to determine the quantity or quality of participation. Considering input and allowing participation does not require the team to include all the input in the student's IEP. In this case, documentation reflects that Ms. Tucker was given an opportunity to participate as a member of the IEP team. Therefore, the Lee's Summit R-VII School District is found not out of compliance.



January 17, 2009



Missouri Department of Elementary and Secondary Education (SEAP)

Division of Special Education Compliance

C/O Child Complaint Coordinator – Ms. Jackie Bruner

P.O. Box 480

Jefferson City, MO 65102-0480



Dear Ms. Bruner,



This child complaint is written regarding my son, Jacob Edward Tucker. I am unable to resolve issues with our school district, Lee’s Summit R-7. I have written to the IEP team and the district’s superintendent and have not been able to get a response from them about my concerns.



My concerns revolve around the goals that the team have for him. I don’t think that they are appropriate and do not address all of his needs. He recently had a reevaluation and he had quite a scatter of scores. His IEP doesn’t address many of the areas of his weaknesses. The District refused to put his evaluation scores in his Present Level and therefore the IEP doesn’t address his real needs.



My son's PLAAP is just what the district brought to the table and hardly any of my input was used. That does not make me an equal partner on the IEP team. While the composite test scores might give a picture of what Jake can or can't do, the subtests give the real picture of his strengths and weaknesses. To make a statement such as, "he performed within the average" does not address his strengths and weaknesses.



Present Level of Educational Performance (PLEP) - The present level determines approaches for ensuring involvement in, or adaptations or modifications to, the general curriculum. Each area of identified educational need must be addressed in at least one of the following: annual goals, supplementary aids/services/supports, or secondary transition services.

The PLEP should accurately describe the student’s performance in all areas of education that are affected by the student’s disability [R340.1721e(2)(a)]. It is helpful to consider the key role of present level of performance in the overall development of the IEP.



Present level of performance information supports the IEP Team’s determination of supplementary aids/services/personnel supports, annual goals and short-term objectives, and state- and district-wide assessments on the IEP [34 CFR §300.347(a)]. The PLEP statement(s) should include four elements (in no particular order):



1. A narrative summary of the baseline data. In understandable terms, explain the data, areas of need, and how the disability affects progress in the general curriculum. The narrative summary must be sufficient to provide a foundation for education planning (a starting point for instruction).



2. Baseline data may be obtained from criterion referenced tests, standardized achievement tests, diagnostic tests, classroom performance, systematic observations, state or district-wide assessments, checklists, progress reports, report cards, student input, parent input, or any combination of the above.



3. A statement of how the disability impacts the student’s involvement/progress in the general curriculum.



4. A description of area(s) of educational need.



Previously, IEPs were required to include "a statement of the child's present levels of educational performance ..." Under IDEA 2004, the IEP must include "a statement of the child's present levels of academic achievement and functional performance ..." Present levels of academic achievement and functional performance require objective data from assessments.

If the school insists on using subjective teacher observations, an independent observer (the hearing officer, for example) will conclude that the school is not interested in monitoring the child's educational progress. This is exactly the conclusion you want this person to draw.

I asked for an ADOS to be performed. The Autism Coordinator suggested that the Autism Social Skills Profile would be a better tool. I agreed to that test, but I stated that I didn’t want my scores averaged in with the teacher’s scores. My son is in high school and his teachers aren’t familiar with his disability and they only see him one hour a day. To use their observations, and to average them with mine, would not give an accurate picture. The District agreed to do that.

The District had twelve teachers and me fill out the profile. There was no test score for this instrument. Instead, there was a summary at the end of the evaluation. I made my own graph to make it easier to read. This information was not available at the meeting to discuss the evaluations. There was only a rough draft without the summary or any explanation of how the data would be used. The class observation was not available either. Instead, the evaluator had written notes on notebook paper and read them aloud at the meeting. The following is the summary that was provided by the district.



Following are the items which at least 7 of the 13 raters indicated as being "never" observed (items 1-36): invites peers to join him in activities, interacts with peers during unstructured activities, asks questions to request information about a person, requests assistance from others, offers assistance to others, initiates greetings with others, introduces self to others, politely asks others to move out of his way. Following are the itemswhich at least 7 of the 13 raters indicated as being "often/very often"(items 37-49) observed as a concern: engages in solitary interests and hobbies, engages in solitary activities in the presence of others.

My son’s evaluations show some serious deficits. These are not truly addressed in his present IEP. The following are his goals:



1. Goal #1 Increase self-advocacy by asking for help at least 2 times in each class per semester.



2. Goal #2 Increase organization/study skills by independently following written directions and completing task 2 times in each class per semester.



3. Goal #3 Jacob will increase pragmatic/social language skills by maintaining a conversation using concise and relevant information with peers/adults with no more than one prompt on 3 consecutive days.



4. Goal #4 Jacob will improve pragmatic skills by identifying the impressions he feels he is making in an interaction with peers/adults and adjusting his behavior appropriately in a structured small-group setting in 4/5 opportunities on 3 consecutive data days.



5. Goal #5 Jacob will improve pragmatic skills by inferring meaning from different social scenarios and identifying appropriate responses to the emotions of other in these situations with 80% accuracy on 3 consecutive data days.



These goals do not state how he will do these things, what the method of therapy or services will be to help him do these things, who will perform these services, how often these services will be provided, and what the services are. How can a goal be achieved when there is nothing in place to achieve it?



1. Goal # 1 What does this mean? Who is he to ask? What phrasing will he use? What kind of help can he expect? What is the time frame for the response?



2. Goal #2 This goal would allow him to fail. If he only completes a task 2 times per semester, he would fail.



3. Goal #3 So if they prompt him, he will concisely say, “Hi. How are you?” This is not a measurable goal. What is relevant or irrelevant information? Who measures this? Who decides? What is the relevance meter?



4. Goal #4 How can he self reflect and self repair language? Is his impression measurable? He is being expected to remember to adjust his disability.



5. Goal #5 How will he improve? How will you know which he is doing on which of three days?



How are they going to help him achieve these goals because it looks like they're making him responsible for everything (ie he'll ask for help; he'll maintain the conversation")What are THEY going to do to help HIM be successful?What do they mean by "maintaining a conversation using concise and relevant information?" Who defines what's "concise" or "relevant"? What are his disabilities and known areas of need? For example, can he identify what "impression" he "feels" he's making? Will he be able to "adjust his behaviors accordingly" once he "recognizes his impressions"? How will he master that goal? By teacher observation of his interactions? Is there going to be someone there to "moderate" his interactions with others? For example, will a teacher or therapist stop to ask him, "What impression do you think you're making on your peers?" either after the interaction is over or would they ask him in front of his peers? What is his baseline for "inferring meaning" in social situations now? Does he have one? How do they know this is an area of need?What "social situations" are they going to use to try to teach him to infer meaning?Can he identify an "appropriate response to the emotions of others"? What specifically do they mean by an "appropriate response" to emotions of others? Are they trying to teach compassion, sympathy, how to diffuse someone who is angry with him? It seems like they want him to tailor his actions to someone else's "reactions." Can he do this? How are they even measuring 80% accuracy over 3 consecutive days? They haven't defined what their criteria are yet (i.e. He'll engage in a 5 minute give and take conversation about some social situation - I don't know, say, how to act in a restaurant - so, maybe how to interact with a waiter when ordering a meal).



Because there are no evaluations in the Present Level we don’t even know what his areas of deficits are. We only know that sometimes he is average, sometimes he is above average, sometimes he is below average, but overall he seems to be quite average.



I asked for an independent evaluation in hopes that I would be able to get more information about my son’s deficits and have someone to help me with analyzing the data. The district did not send me the same information, about providers, that they send other parents. The list that they sent me was inaccurate and forced me to find the updated information on my own. I notified the district of this. I have received no response from them.



INDEPENDENT EDUCATIONAL EVALUATIONS

34 CFR §300.502

General

As described below, you have the right to obtain an independent educational evaluation (IEE) of

your child if you disagree with the evaluation of your child that was obtained by your school

district.



If you request an independent educational evaluation, the school district must provide you with information about where you may obtain an independent educational evaluation and about the school district’s criteria that apply to independent educational evaluations.



My son’s evaluations show that he has a weakness in oral expression. His standard score in that area was an 80. His full scale IQ is 102. Our district standard states that a 20-point difference qualifies you for services. This is per Jerry Keimig. This area needs a goal. His standard score for Pragmatic Language Usage Index was an 86. This area needs a goal. His standard score for Contextual Conventions was a 90. This is not a solid skill and this area needs a goal. His standard score for Sentence Assembly was 80. This area needs a goal. His standard score for Language Memory was an 88. This area needs a goal and accommodations. His age equivalent score for the Interpersonal Relationships subtest of the Vineland II was <3:0. His age equivalent score for the Expressive was 6:10. His age equivalent for Play and Leisure Time was 3:6. His age equivalent for Coping Skills was 3:2. These were observations from a teacher that sees him one hour a day. The Vineland II scores that come from the parent rating report are: Receptive, age equivalent 1:6, Expressive, age equivalent 5:4, Personal, age equivalent 5:10, Domestic, age equivalent 5:6, Interpersonal Relationships, age equivalent 0:1, Play and Leisure Time, age equivalent 1:10, Coping Skills, age equivalent 3:10. His Internalizing was at the Clinically Significant Level, his externalizing was at the Elevated Level, and his Maladaptive Behavior Index was at the Clinically Significant Level. He needs help to improve in all of these areas. His standard score for Working Memory Index was 88. He needs goals and accommodations in this area.



I don’t believe that his deficits are being addressed and the District seems to be complacent about this. His overall scores aren’t that significant and they are not addressing the subtest scores.



I have attached documentation in support of my claims listed above. I request a copy of all responses that the District provides and the opportunity to submit a rebuttal. I feel that the described events are a clear violation of my rights to participation in my son’s education and his right to a free and appropriate education. I ask that DESE intervene in this situation and mandate the Lee’s Summit R-7 School District to comply with the law. I believe that compensatory services are warranted as the district has prohibited my son from making progress and receiving the free and appropriate education that is federally mandated.



Respectfully,



Curtis and Sherri Tucker

1200 SE London Way

Lee’s Summit, MO 64081

816-554-3017

autism@kc.rr.com



Enclosures



Attachment 1 – Autism Social Skills Profile

Attachment 2 – Email Discussing Social Skills Program, dated December 28, 2008

Attachment 3 – Graph of Autism Social Skills Profile

Attachment 4 – Email stating evaluator list is inaccurate, dated December 26, 2008

Attachment 5 – Email requesting IEE, dated December 19, 2008

Attachment 6 – Email with amended evaluator list, dated December 29, 2008

Attachment 7 – Email with information from psychologist, dated December 30, 2008

Attachment 8 – Email re: Modification Changed, dated January 7, 2009

Attachment 9 – Secondary School Experiences of Students With Autism

Attachment 10 – Vineland Comparison Graph

Attachment 11 – Full Scale IQ vs. Beery-Buktenica Developmental Test

Attachment 12 - Full Scale IQ vs. CELF-4

Attachment 13 – Full Scale IQ vs. TOPL-2)

Attachment 14 – Full Scale IQ vs. TLC-E)

Attachment 15 – WISC-IV

Attachment 16 – Full Scale IQ vs. WNV

Attachment 17 – Full Scale IQ vs. WIATT-II

Attachment 18 – Full Scale IQ vs. TOWL-3

Attachment 19 – Child Complaint Model Form



January16, 2009



Missouri Department of Elementary and Secondary Education (SEAP)

Division of Special Education Compliance

C/O Child Complaint Coordinator – Ms. Jackie Bruner

P.O. Box 480

Jefferson City, MO 65102-0480



Dear Ms. Bruner,



This child complaint is written regarding my son, Jacob Edward Tucker. I am unable to resolve issues with our school district, Lee’s Summit R-7. I have written to the IEP team and the district’s superintendent and have not been able to get a response from them about my concerns.



My concerns revolve around parent participation. During meetings, my comments are either ignored and no changes are made or they listen to my concerns and state that they don’t agree and no changes are made. Any suggestions that I have made regarding Present Level are ignored. I state that I don’t agree with their description of the Present Level and they tell me that I may include that in the Parent Concerns. I submit my concerns to be included in the Parent Concerns and they edit this document. I asked for tests score to be placed in the Present Level to guide services proposed and I am refused. I was allowed no input in relation to the goals and/or services. My son has an eligibility category of Educational Autism. He is in regular education classes with no supports besides 40 minutes of speech per week. I feel that decisions have been made prior to the meeting regarding my child’s IEP. The district has removed items from the Modifications/Accommodations page without my approval. It was discussed in the meeting and the decision was made to change the frequency from As Needed to Daily; not to delete it entirely. The meeting notes taken by the District were incomplete and rarely reported the discussions held in the meeting. I specifically wrote the Superintendent asking to record the meeting due to the fact that the recorder could not accurately describe the events as tape recording is against District policy, although legal in Missouri. I have not received an answer to this request to date. I requested a notice of action refused for the District’s refusal to include my changes in the Present Level and for editing my Parent Concerns without my approval. The district responded to this request on January 6 in an e-mail but I have received no such document.



Applicable sections of IDEA law are described below:



Integral to the design of IDEA is the substantive involvement of parents in assessing student needs and planning how to address those needs. In its Finding section, IDEA 2004 states that:



(5) Almost 30 years of research and experience has demonstrated that the education of children with disabilities can be made more effective by...



(B) strengthening the role and responsibility of parents and ensuring that families of such children have meaningful opportunities to participate in the education of their children at school and at home... (20 U.S.C. $ 1400 (c) (5) (B).)



State education agencies and local school districts must have in place policies and procedures that ensure the opportunity for parents to participate in meetings related to the identification, evaluation, program and placement of their children (20 U.S.C. $ 1415 (b) (1)). Participate is the operative term. The school must enable meaningful participation in discussion and decision-making. Mere attendance at meetings satisfies neither the spirit nor the letter of the law. The requirement applies to all meetings in which decisions will be made except for routine meetings among staff to discuss day-to-day instructional planning necessary to implement an existing IEP.



Recent decisions affirm the essential role of parents in designing their children's special education. Precluding parent participation through staff predetermination of services or placement egregiously violates IDEA. School districts should be aware that courts have become more alert to this problem and less likely to excuse it (Deal v. Hamilton Co. Bd. of Ed.; Knable v. Bexley City Sch. Dist.).



Also see attached documentation in support of my claims listed above. I request a copy of all responses that the District provides and the opportunity to submit a rebuttal. I feel that the described events are a clear violation of my rights to participation in my son’s education. I ask that DESE intervene in this situation and mandate the Lee’s Summit R-7 School District to comply with the law. I believe that compensatory services are warranted as the district prohibited my participation thus meaningfully impeding my son’s education.



Respectfully,







Curtis and Sherri Tucker

1200 SE London Way

Lee’s Summit, MO 64081

816.554.3017 Home

E-mail: autism@kc.rr.com



Enclosures



Attachment 1 – Child Complaint – Model Form

Attachment 2 – Letter to District re: Parent Participation, dated December 22, 2008

Attachment 3 – Letter to District re: My Parent Concerns, dated December 23, 2008

Attachment 4 – Letter from Joy Rose re: Notice of Action, dated January 6, 2009

Attachment 5 – Letter to District re: Modification Changed, dated January 7, 2009

Attachment 6 – Copy of District Notes, dated August 27, 2008

Attachment 7 – Request to Tape Record, dated January 7, 2009

Attachment 8 – Parent’s Meeting Notes, dated August 27, 2008

Attachment 9 – District Refusal to Include Parent’s Notes, dated October 13, 2008

Attachment 10-Request for Notice of Action, dated December 30, 2008

Attachment 11-Request for Changes in Present Level, dated December 30, 2008